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Welcome to my blog. Here I share insights about my life as a full-time artist and single mom, as well as intriguing facts about fashion, art, and beauty.
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Empowering others through art and design
I have always sought to capture and convey emotions through my work—empowerment, elegance, femininity, strength, resilience, and independence. These values are at the heart of every muse I paint, each female character embodying a unique story of self-expression and beauty. Yet, as I grow and evolve in my artistic journey, I find myself questioning: can I communicate these ideals solely through my muses? This question has opened a door to new possibilities, pushing me to explore beyond the two-dimensional world of my paintings. Recently, I’ve been focusing on refining and simplifying my muses, distilling their essence to convey even more power through fewer details. But it’s not just about what I leave [...]
My new journey as an aspiring jewelry designer!
As I’ve shared before, I’m currently working on developing my own jewelry line. What an exciting journey it has been! However, I must admit, it hasn’t been as straightforward as I initially thought. Designing jewelry is a whole new world for me, and although I’ve already developed some ideas and had them produced by a manufacturer, the process is far more complex than I imagined. For instance, I designed a pair of earrings featuring a pearl, and while the prototype has arrived, I’m not completely satisfied with how the pearl is attached. It feels unbalanced to me, and the aesthetics aren’t quite there yet. This means going back to the drawing board [...]
In search of the essence which is a journey into the unknown!
As an artist, I’ve always been captivated by the interplay of elegance and strength, especially as it manifests in women. My work has revolved around muses—sophisticated figures that embody sensuality, mystique, and empowerment. Yet, lately, I’ve found myself yearning to delve deeper, to strip away the recognizable form and reach the core of what I’m trying to express. What happens when the muse disappears? When I move beyond the figure of a woman and attempt to capture the essence of femininity, strength, and sensuality without relying on a literal representation? These questions have consumed me, and my creative journey feels like navigating in darkness—following only the faint glow of my headlights, unsure [...]
(Happy) New Year, new vision: finding the essence of my work!
As the new year begins, I’ve set a resolution to dive deeper into my art and explore its true essence. This year, I’ll focus on stripping away everything in my work that distracts from the core message I want to convey. I’ll experiment with different materials, simplify my visual language, and explore how I can create the most impact with less. My goal? To craft even more powerful versions of my muses—refined, bold, and timeless. The essence of my work lies in celebrating femininity as a source of strength. Sensual, independent, respectful, and uncompromising. My muses embody an invitation for women to put themselves at the center of their stories, to embrace [...]
Is my art feminist?
It’s a question I’ve been asked before, and to be honest, it’s an interesting one. At first glance, my work may not immediately appear feminist in the traditional sense of activism or protest. But I believe that feminism is woven into my art in the subtle yet powerful way I aim to portray femininity, strength, and autonomy. Here’s why: Autonomy and Self-Expression The muses in my paintings are not dependent on the gaze of others. They are independent, self-assured, and unapologetically themselves. They exude strength and self-awareness, embodying feminist values of autonomy and equality. My work seeks to show that women have the right to be visible without being objectified, which, in [...]
Finding strength through vulnerability
Art, for me, has always been more than colors on a canvas—it’s a reflection of life’s struggles and triumphs, of resilience and grace. My journey hasn’t been without its challenges, and I believe that these experiences have shaped not only who I am but also the art I create. As a single mother, I’ve faced moments of uncertainty, balancing the demands of motherhood with my dream of building a career as an artist. There were days when the weight of responsibility felt overwhelming, when self-doubt crept in, and when the future seemed uncertain. But it was in these moments of vulnerability that I discovered my strength. I realized that the very things [...]
At the crossroads of art, resilience, and elegance
Art, to me, is a vessel for transformation, empowerment, and connection. My work exists at the intersection of strength and vulnerability, of elegance and raw human emotion. It is born from a life that defies simplicity, a journey shaped by resilience, ambition, and an unyielding drive to create beauty that resonates far beyond the canvas. A journey forged in resilience As a single mother navigating the complexities of raising a son with severe multiple disabilities and a teenage daughter, my life is a tapestry of challenges and triumphs. These experiences are not separate from my art—they are its foundation. Every muse I paint, every line I draw, carries the weight of real [...]
Why I paint my muses: A journey into feminine strength and elegance
As an artist, I’ve always been drawn to the idea of creating muses—figures that embody femininity, strength, and sophistication. My work revolves around these female forms, often depicted with a focus on their faces, shoulders, and expressions, and sometimes extending to hands or subtle gestures. Over the years, this recurring theme has become the core of my artistic identity, not just for its visual appeal but for the deeper emotional resonance it carries. Each muse I create feels like a conversation with myself and with the women who inspire me—whether from art, history, or life. They reflect my admiration for elegance, confidence, and the unique beauty of the feminine form. These women [...]
Why Art is a valuable investment in 2025 – from my perspective as an artist
As an artist, I witness the thriving art market firsthand, with growing interest in contemporary art and works by emerging talents. Art is increasingly recognized as a unique and rewarding investment, offering something no traditional asset can: beauty, emotion, and a sense of connection. Beyond that, art stands out for its low correlation with volatile markets like stocks and bonds, making it particularly appealing during uncertain times. It’s not just a way to diversify your portfolio—it’s a way to protect and enrich your life. The Long-Term Potential of Art What excites me most is art’s long-term potential. Collectors who invest in emerging artists often see their acquisitions grow in value as the [...]
Creating a commission: a personal and bespoke artwork
Creating a commissioned artwork is always a deeply personal and rewarding journey for me. It’s a collaboration between myself as the artist and the client who comes to me with a unique vision or a special request. Each commission tells a story, embodying the personal wishes and aspirations of the person who commissions it. I feel honored to bring these visions to life. It all begins with a conversation. I take the time to understand your ideas, preferences, and inspirations. This can include details about colors, styles, themes, or even the emotions you want the artwork to convey. I also infuse my own artistic vision to ensure the result is both harmonious [...]
The unique bond between artist and art collector
When someone connects with one of my artworks, it’s not just a transaction—it’s the beginning of a meaningful relationship. Over the years, I’ve found that many of my art collectors have become acquaintances or even friends! Though we may not be in daily contact, our shared appreciation for art creates a lasting connection that is truly special. A bond built on shared passion When someone shows interest in my art, it’s an incredible feeling. Their curiosity about my work, their questions, and their desire to know the story behind each piece opens up an opportunity for a deeper connection. I personally answer their questions, guide them in their selection, and even advise [...]
10 Reasons why you should buy art
As an artist, I often hear people ask, “Why should I buy art?” Over the years, I’ve come to realize that art holds far more value than many realize. Whether you’re a seasoned collector or just starting out, investing in art can transform your life in profound ways. Here are 10 compelling reasons why buying art is one of the best decisions you can make: 1. Art makes your space unique Art brings personality and character to any space, whether it’s your home, office, or studio. Unlike mass-produced decorations, original art is one-of-a-kind. It reflects your taste and makes your environment feel special. As Maria Brito, an acclaimed art advisor, says: “Great [...]
What My Paintings Teach Me About Life
As I reflect on my creative process, I realize that painting teaches me so much more than just how to blend colors or create depth—it teaches me life lessons. Through painting, I’ve learned the importance of letting go of control and allowing mistakes to happen. In fact, these so-called “mistakes” often lead to the most beautiful results. Take the lips of my muses, for example. They may seem simple—a mouth, perfectly shaped—but they’re anything but straightforward. The lips are created through countless layers. I’ve painted them, erased them, and painted them again, over and over. Each layer adds texture, depth, and a story. This repetitive process has taught me patience. It’s a [...]
The Extendables: A sparkling collaboration with OTAZU Jewelry
I am beyond thrilled to announce that The Extendables, the stunning earrings I collaborated on with OTAZU, are officially live and ready to shine! This moment marks an exciting milestone in my journey as an artist and designer, blending my love for elegance, creativity, and wearable art into something truly special. Working with OTAZU has been an inspiring experience. Known for their bold and sophisticated jewelry, OTAZU shares my passion for design that empowers and captivates. Together, we envisioned a pair of earrings that would not only be beautiful but also versatile—perfect for adding a touch of glamour to any occasion. And so, The Extendables were born. These earrings are a nod [...]
The Ultimate Gift for Artists and Dreamers: My Book + Exclusive Art Bundle
The holiday season is here, and I couldn’t be more excited to share something truly special with you! 🎄 If you’re an artist—or know someone who dreams of making a living through their creativity—my book, Becoming a Successful Selling Artist, is the perfect gift. This isn’t just a book; it’s a roadmap to turning passion into a thriving career, filled with personal stories, actionable tips, and a lot of heart. But wait, there’s more! To celebrate the season of giving, I’m offering an exclusive art bundle to accompany your book: ✨ A limited edition print to adorn your walls. ✨ A golden envelope filled with a collection of 9 stunning art cards. [...]
The Scarves Have Arrived: Art You Can Wear, Now in Your Hands!
After months of dreaming, designing, and perfecting every detail, I am beyond thrilled to announce that my first scarf collection is here! Each piece is now available on my website, and I couldn’t be more proud of the results. These scarves are more than just accessories—they’re a piece of my art, reimagined into something you can carry with you and make your own. The Collection: Elegance in Every Detail This debut collection features three exquisite designs, each crafted from one of my original paintings. The transformation from canvas to silk was a journey of creativity and precision, resulting in scarves that radiate sophistication and individuality. •CharmTwist Queen Bee – A slender 7x90 [...]
Exciting News: My Journey to a Luxury Lifestyle Brand
Hello, art lovers and loyal supporters! I’m thrilled to share a new chapter in my journey—one that’s been developing behind the scenes, and I can’t wait for you to join me on this path. While my artwork has always celebrated elegance and femininity, I’m now evolving my vision to include a broader lifestyle experience. Introducing my Luxury Lifestyle brand! In response to so much love and enthusiasm for my art, I’m now creating pieces that aren’t just beautiful on the wall but can also be worn, styled, and enjoyed in everyday life. This new brand direction allows me to bring my art closer to you in an entirely fresh and luxurious way, [...]
Creating Art You Can Wear: My Journey into Scarves and Jewelry
For the past 10 years, I’ve been on a journey of discovering my own signature style as an artist. Each painting, every brushstroke, has brought me to where I am today—a place where I feel truly fulfilled by the art I create. I’m so grateful for the love and support from all of you who have shared in this creative adventure with me. Now, I’m excited to take my art beyond the canvas and into your everyday life. I want to bring more beauty, elegance, and joy into your world—not just on your walls, but in the things you wear. That’s why I’ve started designing scarves! I want you to be able [...]
A Day of Creativity with Ilse
Today, I had the pleasure of hosting a private art class for Ilse, a remarkable woman who has spent many years as an executive secretary and management assistant. Despite her busy office life, Ilse has always nurtured a creative side, and in her free time, she enjoys painting, sculpting, and crafting. Her passion for creativity has even led her to travel to different locations to explore various artistic courses, and I was thrilled when she decided to join me for her own private art class. Ilse has been following my art on Instagram for over a year, and she was eager to create a painting in my style. From the moment she [...]
Guess Who’s Back? Nicole’s Second Private Art Class Adventure!
Here she is again—do you recognize her? It’s Nicole, the goldsmith behind Mimmie Sieraden, and she’s back for round two of my private art class! After her first class, she was so inspired that she designed and handcrafted a pair of pure gold earrings. Today, she came wearing them, ready to create a stunning artwork once more! This time, we painted a stunning half-face portrait of her daughter, Jolie, capturing every detail, from her freckles to her flowing hair. Nicole couldn’t have been happier with how the piece turned out, especially since it looks just like her daughter! We worked hard, enjoyed coffee and a healthy lunch, and when the painting was [...]
No blueprint, no guarantees: against all odds!
Is it hard to be an artist? Is living off your art as a single mom difficult? These are questions I get asked often. My answer? Yes and no. When I started this journey, I didn’t have a blueprint. I didn’t have a crystal-clear idea of what I was going to create, nor how I was going to make a living out of it. All I knew was that I wanted to be an artist, but the path ahead was uncertain. Ten years ago, I switched careers. I left behind the familiarity of my previous life to venture into the unknown, driven by a desire to create something truly unique. To be [...]
A Creative Journey: Private Art Class with Mandy and Marjolein
Recently, I had the pleasure of hosting a private art class with a lovely mother-daughter duo, Mandy and Marjolein. It was an incredibly special day, filled with creativity, laughter, and a wonderful sense of accomplishment as they both worked on their masterpieces. What made this session even more meaningful for me is that Marjolein is actually family! We discovered that she’s a distant cousin, the daughter of my grandmother’s brother. How amazing to think that creativity runs in the family, connecting us through generations. It was heartwarming to see both Mandy and Marjolein enjoying the experience together, as mother and daughter. Before we began, we took the time to discuss in detail [...]
Embracing Discomfort to Achieve Success: My Journey
Success—what does it really mean? Is it about wealth, status, or something deeper? For me, it’s about freedom—the freedom to live without the constraints of society’s expectations. But achieving this freedom isn’t just about hard work. If it were, everyone would be successful. It’s about something more, something most of us avoid: stepping out of our comfort zones. Our comfort zones are like warm blankets that shield us from the world. They make us feel safe but also hold us back from growth. Whether it’s endlessly scrolling through social media, binge-watching TV shows, or sticking to familiar routines, these habits keep us stagnant. But true growth happens where there’s discomfort. That’s why [...]
My Art Cart with Essential Art Supplies and Tools
In today’s post, I’ll be sharing the art supplies and tools that I personally use to bring my artistic visions to life. These are the tried-and-true products that have become essential in my creative process. Whether you're a seasoned artist or just starting out, I hope you’ll find some inspiration here. The Art of Creativity: It’s Not About the Tools Before we dive into the details, I want to emphasize that creativity isn’t about the tools you use; it’s about how you use them. You can create stunning artwork with just a simple pencil and paper. It’s all about capturing the essence of your subject through light, shade, and texture. While I’ll [...]
How to Break Out of Your Comfort Zone to Achieve Your Dreams
Yesterday, as I was walking outside, something caught my eye—a small sprout breaking through the top of the soil. It was a simple, natural occurrence, but it made me pause and reflect. Think about it: how challenging must it be for that sprout to muster the strength to leave the comforting soil behind? The earth is like a warm, protective cocoon, shielding it from the harsh elements of the world. Yet, despite the challenges—rain, wind, fluctuating temperatures, and even threats from insects and birds—many sprouts not only survive but thrive, blossoming into beautiful flowers or towering trees. This small sprout got me thinking about a fundamental aspect of our lives: breaking out [...]